I've noticed that as I gain faster (I think at least 50 pounds in just the last 12-14 months), he has been making more and more fattening food and bigger and richer desserts. I m not so sure its a fetish for everyone. That was a little over a year ago and now I have a 520lb wife and a 2 little girls that very much take after their mom. How much did you weigh when you got married? Watching someone gain weight and move from size to size is alluring. My wife always seemed to like me in good muscular shape, but when I accidentally grew a huge belly, she seemed to keep feeding me even more and certainly seemed turned on by the much fatter husband she now had. To determine whether your husband may be skinny fat, you should get his body composition analyzed to find out the percentage of body fat first from a reliable source. She weighed herself in July and she was 328. Does she know you love her fatter from the beginning or did she start gaining and you always seems to appreciate her figure?With stocking the freezer and pantry is she aware that you want her to keep gaining or does she mention it to you?How big do you think she will get or want her to get? MY fat boy! Does it mean I never loved him? Hes closing in on 300 pounds of blubber. Anonymous. Yea, thats so sweet. Answer (1 of 8): Understanding that my view may not be of popular opinion, I whole heartedly believe attraction is a fundamental requirement in a relationship. Well, she knew I wouldn't mind at all if she gained weight, so she soon was eating anything she wanted, and the fat piled on. My girlfriend getting fatter and I like it: Four best reasons why: 1. Gain together - mutual gaining is great you get to point out where he is getting fat and needs to size up - poke poke - and he gets to see your belly rolls! Unfortunately when my wife wants her favorite high fat, high carb foods, the kids want to eat that as well and telling children that young that they cannot have what mommy is having or what their friends are having is kind of difficult. He says he wants her to gain another 100 pounds. They said they wanted to keep me from developing health issues as I grew older. There are trade offs he needs to understand. I'm 15, 5'5" and about 120-125 pounds and I'm a size 0-2. Is it all her fault? I feel very, very shameful and bad. Just not as much gym time. About a year later we got married, and she was around 225. Id think he was so shallow and that he didnt love me anymore and maybe never loved me in the first place. The helpless surrendering to eating and gaining just makes it all the better. You can be disappointed and angry and impatient and sad about not feeling horny for your partner, for how your sex life is going, for what your relationship is right now. At that height, you have to be 180 pounds to be on the cusp of obesity. His waist was 35-36, now 44 and his belly hangs over his belt a lot. I could do with some now actually! How big are you planning on going? Consider stepping away and saying, "I need a moment after what you just said." Avoid engaging in further conversation until you've stepped away and had some space. Long story short, Ive been in fairly good shape my entire life. If you cook, start making more caloric meals--lots of carbs and fat. I started binge eating during the pandemic and I have been struggling with my weight. Not true in real life. Thats totally fine. !Anita G. I gained 77 pounds in the pandemic, all of it belly, and all of it flab, like my wife says "You're almost like a woman now." I've put on over 120lbs of pure fat since then, sitting around 322 now. With her encouragement, and I ADORE HER FAT, I foresee a large amount of belly rubs in my future both getting and giving. You are allowed to feel like it sucks. So its not a lack of honesty, its just that shes not ready to talk about it and Im respecting that. Just don't take it out on him or his body. Women who approach fattening their husbands up like that are really persuasive. When I graduated from high school I was 135 pounds. Make a podcast, YouTube or TikTok videos about our confessions and we'll promote your content, free! Let her know how you feel. I'm 24, and i got married to my husband when I was 20. When I'm with my married friends they speak about their husbands looks and weight in such a negative way. My wife has always set goals, and as she gets closer to that goal, she bumps it higher. Im always happy to hear about folks like us. Nice. Solely because of your wife? Have been almost this heavy previously, and was really stressed about it. No more worry over appearance and weight. I'm willing to bet, though, that vary soon the real goal will be 400. I've blown past every milestone we've set, she has a heavy hand when it comes to feeding. Can you go on more date nights? When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. People who have chronic illnesses who will not recover from them are not lesser than healthy people. I love to show my fat wife off to all the skinny b******. My wife is very fat with big bum and belly and I love it . Take 5 deep breaths. Too bad she doesn't want any more kids! There are many different types of pill and many other forms of contraceptive, and even the Practice Nurse will be willing to give you advice on what may be better for you. When I'm eating my chicken and rice, he's eating pizza. Its only been 20 pounds. My hubby seems to really enjoy my gain as well. Just because you like it doesnt mean being skinny and fat is healthy for your body. She's gorgeous, greedy and very sexy. A Saturday evening with her dad, you're thinking . It has ruined a lot of marriages which I thought about. He doesn't like the extra weight on him, but he seems to like when I grab his belly and moobs. A good goal for the first year of marriage is 50 pounds. Surround him with food and encourage him. Its definitely worth it in the end to achieve a healthier lifestyle. If you can get out "red" or "stop," you can call for a coital cease. Stop reducing us and trying to explain away our existence. She says she feel perfectly fine, and won't go back to the doctor unless she doesn't feel well. I asked him why and he said I am getting bigger and bigger, and soon I will not be able to sit in his car. So if the doctor has said that your husband has obesity health risks and you didnt fully understand what they mean by skinny fat, now you know why. Is your husband or boyfriend fat? Anyone getting fat for a new years resolution? I too am a fat wife. I don't like feeling his bones. Whether thats me putting on weight and filling out or a romantic partner. It would kill me to see them treated badly because their mom and I allowed them to become chubby. Plenty of fit people are unhealthy. turns out all i was was fat. One solid inch up several not-so-firm inches out. Its not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! Huffing and puffing getting dressed while I massage her fat side rolls. Yup, you can be sneaky about it! Ironically enough, I met my boyfriend during the thinnest month of my life. It's easy to think that if our boyfriend tells us that either he doesn't believe in marriage or he doesn't want to get married that he's going to change his mind. But Ive gained almost 90 pounds in the last couple years. Dinner is actually in 10 minutes! She has insisted that my brother get fat as well. Also have a foot fetish and love me some meaty BBW feet.BBW fans also seem to really love my wife and her feet. That day, she started chowing down, and now she's a very pleasing 275 or so. They keep me hopping so weight gain is not an issue for me. I dont think its as much as a fetish as Im just attracted to her new curvier body in a way I didnt realize I would be. Then snuggle him and let him crush you with his pounds while, you knowfat boy s**! My husband is always grabbing my love handles ( having kids, I can't get rid of them no matter how hard I try). Also make sure you f*** him! We've been married for 7 years. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: Imperial House, 2nd Floor, 40-42 Queens Road, Brighton, East Sussex, BN1 3XB, Taking a break or withdrawing from your course, MPhil Economics/Economic Research Cambridge 2023, Official UCL 2023 Undergraduate Applicants Thread. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. I understand it's a "fetish" but what justifications would you give to particpating or encouraging it? What ideas does he have? (25-29) I think my boyfriend has been trying to make me 'bigger'. To be honest while I would support him if he wanted to lose the weight I dont think he would look good at his age back to his skinny old self. I think you should bring it up to her. Associating food with s e x has definitely helped my husband in filling out. But that belly yuck. # 1091037. Ive tried, but shes just not comfortable talking about it. Anonymous confessions, stories and advice. Be prepared to gain some serious additional pounds!You might be surprised how your desires and fantasies compare. His legs and arms are still quite lean. Sounds like someone has never been with a man of substance.. I try to counter this overwhelming guilt by making healthier foods or encouraging him to go out to the gym with me, but he never commits. How much weight has she put on? My wife has been more aggressive in her encouragement of me eating. . I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat . I need you to talk to a doctor about this. So since Ive been with my husband Ive gained about 50lbs. I love having a takeaway once or twice a week. Just because you like it doesnt mean being fat is healthy for your body. We have been married for 28 years. Avoid having serious conversations with him. Plenty of fat people are healthy. I hope he still gains in the coming years. (Which is true, he has lost about an inch." He would probably get turned on . Early on I made it clear that he would eat until I decided he was full enough, and then and only then could we fool around. My wife has to lift my massive belly to have s**. My husband is getting fat. She never verbally discussed it with me but the bigger I kept getting the lovemaking and bigger fattening meals just kept coming. How many women want to seriously fatten up their husbands? All rights reserved. my GF lost 100lb from gastric bypass I was against her doing it. My girlfriend LOVES my fat, too, and it makes it hard to resist her treats, her attention and her obvious obsession with my fat. I am one too. After I went to the place of feeling like a helpless, worthless ten-year-old girl, I tapped into my strong inner woman. Haha! So you should still put some care into his diet and exercise. I love the attention. He says the s** is beyond awesome. Give him what he loves! Id also love for you to go to therapy, but I know thats a longer process. But its the truth. Big bodies are not just social experiments, nor are we just fetishes. 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They're fat and the want me to be like them/they think fat kids are cute. Were not kids any more. But we will love it when you join us!! and our I've discussed the ways to make him happy and deal with this situation with a calm state of mind. An my baby girl, she gonna be nice an plump too! Skinny fat is caused mainly by insufficient muscle mass, leading to a larger body fat percentage. The way shes been over serving me over the holidays, I definitely got that hint! Does she yo-to, too? She seems to finally be accepting that shes just going to be a little more matronly. The lesson here is guys, if you want a fat wife find a fat girl who is comfortable in her own skin. You might say something like: Im very sad because I feel like we arent as connected or romantic as before, and I feel like Ive lost some of my attraction to you. I'm guessing you already told her you like her to be curvier; keep enforcing that. 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