So, giving up alcohol may help you to improve your relationships with friends and family. Husband is 100% better. Alcohol and Alcoholism, 55(4), pp.433-438. It activates premature ageing, causes appetite loss and you will notice a quick weight loss. "Most likely, people who care about you will be supportive and encourage your efforts to stay sober," says Kennedy. Social I had to leave an important meeting just to get home and have 3 drinks to stop a panic attack. water per day, and my fitbit shows my average resting heart rate has dropped from 69 to 57. Im four months happily AF.Its also so wonderful not to have to lie anymore to the question every doctor asks : how much do you drink?. I have noticed a huge difference in my sleep (also no more hangovers!!!) I have the sugar craving, which is fine, but every evening I reach for a glass of zero alcohol wine and I reckon Ive still got a habit. Lifeline is also available for support 24/7 on 13 11 14. This is similar to possible weight loss. A lot of mental health challenges are faced by alcohol addicts. This is great for those who want to maintain their weight and/or start cutting fat. Im always battling with those extra ten pounds, but being sober hasnt made much of a difference for me in regards to my marriage, self esteem, confidence or motivation yet I still have daily acid reflux as well, something I thought would go away after maintaining the no alcohol lifestyle. Ill drink about a litre, then the next night a litre and a half, then the next day two, this can go on for a bout a week, and then I wont sleep, wake up feeling bad, Ill stop for a few days and the whole cycle goes on again. Not being able to walk was the last straw. Sleeping better, In the next two months I will wean myself off sugar. This is because alcohol can cause fatigue and decreased motivation, so when you stop drinking, you may find it easier to get things done. Last week I hit 6 months more improvements to discuss. After 8 days in, the improvement in quality of day tie alertness is dramatic as well as far better sleep quality. Hearst Magazine Media, Inc. All Rights Reserved. I will continue, though, although maybe not permanently. Better Resistance. No groups just lifestyle change and personal accountability. I never wanted to give up drinking -it was like losing my loyal friend- but all of these + things began happening for me when I became sober! I tried dry January a few years ago, and succeeded. Watched someone drink a bottle of wine in front of me last night. My confidence has improved and clarity of purpose too. Be strong and let your motions run you. The longest I did was five weeks but that was about ten years ago. I now put ice tea and flavored fresh fruit water in my wine glasses. I have energy, passion, drive, concentration & guess what? 2 years is a long time. less onerous. Awful article. As far as chocolate was concerned I used very high cocoa level dark chocolate. Instead, I realized Sobriety was something I had. How Long Does Withdrawal From Nicotine Last? Initially I lost 20 lbs once I quit but getting back into a regular powerlifting routine (almost obsessive) I have gained a decent amount of good weight back. Sober 3 months. I wanted to be able to stop, when I would try and go a couple days to sober up if I had to be somewhere for work, I would lay in a fetal position on the couch , clenched jaw, unbearable anxiety, shakes and night sweats. Stay strong yall. There are plenty of other perks to easing up on alcohol besides weight loss. My sister finally went to his home. I feel so much better, mentally and physically and Ive lost 45lbs!! It's common to feel anxious or irritable when you first give up alcohol. As others have mentioned here, my coffee and chocolate cravings and intake have increased 10 times fold but those 2 are better than Vodka. Your behavioral unpredictability, anger issues, trust issues and anxiety may be the biggest cause of it. After about 1 month of being alcohol-free, acne and inflammatory skin conditions such as rosacea clear up (provided theyre not being triggered by factors other Good luck to all. At night, I no longer craved carbs and fat. Im about the same in use and desire to change. in the afternoons and then a wine (or so!) It started to improve rather quickly when I decided to stop playin but it wasnt like normal right away. Collison, Daniel & Banbury, Sam & Lusher, Jo. AF. 'I Lost 50 Lbs. ITS A NEW START TO OUR JOURNEY I do have lots of regrets and lots of inner healing and self love and forgiveness I still need to work on. Happier already-no waking up to a hangover and the shame that comes with it. Look better. Nothing changed unless you look closer at the can. The enzyme that helps metabolize the alcohol wasnt fairing well. The darker pink area is also visibly raised. This is when the really good stuff starts to happen. Stress from work and a desire to feel that buzz kept me going. this book isxwhat convinced me to stop no question! I am really struggling. I always knew I needed to stop drinking and never thought Id be able to. I look back at how I have behaved or treated people and have felt a deep shame, and almost remorse. Alcoholic Drinks. Brilliant description Elizabeth ! I found strawberries and watermelon very helpful for the sugar cravings. I was thinking clearer and I didnt get overwhelmed as easy. Current fave: NA lite ginger beer with a splash of cranberry and fresh lime. 3. It does wonders, after my first few weeks ,felt like there was a drink waiting at the end of each week, each month. I noticed that the darkness under my eyes has significantly reduced, my memory has improved, and aside from these new ice cream/ chocolate cravings, it is not helping with any weight loss. Before knowing the effect of alcohol on the test results, it is important to know the metabolism of alcohol in the body. I have lost 15 pounds and I now get more of a reward from knowing Im healthier and the cravings have subsided. Thank you. I have started taking 5 HTP, which was recommended in the book, alcohol lied to me it boosts serotonin, which was previously boosted by alcohol. well done bro, you beat me by 14 days. 788 days before and after. After two years of that my PCP called me in to have more blood work done because my liver enzymes were triple what they shouldve been. I was not raised religious but started reading the bible about 2-3 years ago. Make physical exercise and meditation a permanent part of your life. Now, after taking the time to look at the reasons behind my addiction, I feel more my authentic self than I have felt since I was a very young child. Your email address will not be published. He stopped eating and drank a handle a day. My appetite has really increased. Same thing with the stool issue. Reading daily. So this time I said Game over with alcohol. Thank you for sharing. Barely ever taking a day off. We would encourage you to hope for as many of these great benefits while keeping in mind that you are as unique as your fingerprint. I do feel a small improvement in my health, and hope to gain a greater degree of overall improvement as my alcohol free life continues. I hope it works for you I am AF 50 days now and know Im an all or nothing personality. Hi,Ive been a light but regular drinker for years,Mr Average.Now retired, found more time to open a bottle. Im back to my ideal weight and body fat and almost full strength despite some neuropathy. . Just read this Chris as I get ready to embark on my 30-day challenge. BTW, the TIME I have now! Alcohol is soooo not good for us. In the end to stop drinking must come from me and not from anyone else. I was drinking between 5-7 thousand calories per week! Today is day 76. Because this interupts energy levels etc too, I too have drank for at least 40 years, every night. Many will notice that their blood pressure has lowered if it was high before making changes. When you stop, your brain continues to pump out a lot of those chemicals, leading to the many symptoms of withdrawal. Its never worth it to get someone help if they didnt ask for it but if you do, plenty doors open up. A study from the journal Appetite found that moderate drinkers were 24 percent more likely to order something savory like salty fries, which may be the only edible item at your local dive bar, after drinking. I want to love myself again and hopefully another. It sounds like its a tough time for you right now and we want you to know that there is support available. And don't worry about offending others while saying no. I slept much better when I drank. It has been 9 months of no alcohol and it hasnt been easy. I was a binge drinker for many years my responsibilities came first but the minute I didnt have any responsibilities it was a free for all. Im 1 month and Ill quit with the ice cream but my chocolate has thc so.. 7. He is the medical director at Alcohol Recovery Medicine. By 45, I was drinking daily, and vodka was my drink of choice. You may never have expected to get this far in your journey, but you have showed a great deal of commitment to get here. Buy plenty of fruit. I mean I would drink prior to this, weekends etc like many 20 somethings. Verywell Mind articles are reviewed by board-certified physicians and mental healthcare professionals. Roerecke, M., Kaczorowski, J., Tobe, S., Gmel, G., Hasan, O. and Rehm, J., 2017. I was so worried how hard this was gonna be now? I stopped binge drinking 5 weeks ago. Sleep has improved dramatically as well! I was ashamed of my drinking and felt ashamed the next morning by how many beers I had the day before. I did lose a few pounds but I believe they are back. I only have maybe one a night or one at lunch on a sunday or after doing the mowing etc. People that claim that wine and other alcoholic drinks enhances food flavor can stop lying. To find out more about how we use cookies, see our, After 3 months, your liver will continue to experience that relief as mentioned above. My b/p is going down,the quality of sleep is incredible,l didnt know l could sleep this well without alcohol,but ice cream and donuts have come in the picture,lm looking forward to many more months alchohol free,after 30 years of drinking,l dont miss it, Hi Peter, thats great that you quieted and you are feeling better , i quieted drinking for a month now and i went through a lot of symptoms ,the one is still not going away that easy its my b/p and bloated and constipated ,just wondering if you been through the same and if they eventually went away ,thanks in advance, I too Peter feel so much better. Twenty weeks in and not missing the hangovers one little bit. I do not know what to think. My sister has cirrhosis and is having a difficult time financially because of thatand she has been drinking every day for almost 50 years. It doesnt solve everything, but it makes you be honest, it makes you look at your habits and realise we are responsible for our behaviour and the consequences. Not really feeling it though. My normal personality is quiet and somewhat shy. but I fell for that the last time on day 10 AF. 214.7 pounds Once you have stayed sober for six months you will have reduced to none of social paranoia anymore. Used to experience blackouts and was very nasty. Im having much less anxiety, and the anxiety is easier to calm down. Addict Biol. This has been my process for the last 6 or so months. If your body learned to live with alcohol for a long time then it will take time learning to live without it. I managed to walk out of icu and leave drinking behind me. You might even feel pressured and hopeless if you are not achieving your desired results but you have to remember that sobriety is a wonderful journey and will keep giving back. Alcohol Health Res World. Your risk of developing cancer will decrease, and your liver function will have greatly improved. U.S. Alcohol Drinking Alcohol Consumption Health Care A woman has shared her incredible three-week transformation after completely cutting out alcohol. Im currently at a resort in Mexico and am envious of all the people I see enjoying their cocktails. Its a con, and you have been railroaded and (you) arent that stupid. It is easy to stop, but hard to quit 4ever when you are single. 60. My alcohol intake has steadily increased over the past 10 months, to what is now probably 4 or 5 bottles of wine a week. Quitting is so worth it! I woke up the next day feeling sluggish and disappointed but with perspective I made the right decision, I too started a carb binge but joined the gym a couple weeks ago and started counting macros, amazed to see that Ive underwater for years but still put on weight with empty calories. Now I dont even care to do that. I mean, Im of Swiss decent so naturally I eat chocolate every day but not THAT MUCH. Lifeline is also available for support 24/7 on 13 11 14. This time around, I took a different approach. No booze for last 2 months, feeling better, but have replaced the evening drinkies with 0 beer. I feel edgy and moody. Im on calmer water now I do miss the buzz, I wont lie, but the after-booze fizzle isnt worth it. I never was social until I started drinking. Question for you Jon: My circumstances are similar, my husband still drinks a couple (high alcohol 8%) beers 4X a night, and I find myself irritated with his drinking, which never happened in the past. Ive previously done 4 week AF periods and always feel good. The benefits are incredible, the smug feeling is overwhelming and not to be underestimated. These can include anxiety, minor agitation, restlessness, insomnia, tremor, sweating, palpitations, high blood pressure, headache, and alcohol craving. For the last few days I was wondering why I was feeling sick, irritable, not getting hardly any sleep, cold sweats, the whole shabang. And if you work out, drinking on the reg can make matters worse for your health. I notice I am always forgetting and putting things away in the wrong place but i catch myself and get anxiety a frustrated. Really encourging to read all the replies. 3 Months 3 months of not drinking reduces your risk I cant tell you how inspirational these comments and stories are. This way you might not feel like you have already achieved everything and find it difficult to keep it. I noticed a person had mentioned that their chocolate consumption went through the roof, I had a similar thing but mine was ice cream . My flesh enjoyed what I gave it and it will die once I stop feeding it. This is because alcohol can cause dehydration, which can lead to dry, dull skin. I am delighted to be alcohol free and I make some pretty awesome mocktails. Check out the supportive community on our Daybreak app or get some health coaching support to encourage you along this path. I never knew what real sleep was until now. Im less anxious and sleeping so much better. This is because alcohol is a costly habit, so giving it up can free up some extra cash. I do make myself a decaf cappuccino almost every night. single. One handle a day. My doctor says it may start to come off around 6 month period when I am no longer replacing alcohol with popsicles! After showing my butt Christmas Eve I resolved to quit permanently after 20+ years of daily drinking. You can also make it a bit easier on yourself by avoiding thinking about what youre supposedly missing out onand when you do go out, drinking other hydrating beverages like water (flat or sparkling), tea (hot or iced), or something like a matcha latte, Zeitlin says. I read every article on what alcohol does to your mind & body. I feel great, no more flare-up, better sleep, weight loss and better eating habits, although the craving for chocolate and ice cream increased. World Cancer Research Fund. Six weeks free from alcohol at the moment,one year is the goal!! Im 65; my bad drinking habits go all the way back to when I started college. It became less of an assistant and more of a curse as the years went by to the point I was making choices while under the influence that were having significant consequences on my life. I felt like I did not know what to do with myself and aggitated. My biggest regret is that I didnt do this years ago. Ive experienced some weight gain which is welcomed since Ive always been around 135 when 155/160 is desired. Still working on the energy thing and thankfully my memory is improving. Sounds like a small thing but was so handy to have the ability to do these things late at night. Easier to Eat Healthier. I sat down at a machine in a Safeway and just measured right away no waiting. I miss having a glass with friends. John C. Umhau, MD, MPH, CPE is board-certified in addiction medicine and preventative medicine. Reading these comments is reassuring. Train 5-6 days per week sensibly. For the first time since picking up drinking, I woke up for my early morning runs. if anything weight gain! Im fitter from being able to walk and cycle more often and further without fading and I know deep within that Im far more contented than I have been for a long time. I felt better but the urges were still difficult to subdue. "Being sober will actually help you sleep and have you feeling more restful and energized in the mornings," says Zeitlin. At least I must be getting healthier (from what Ive read in articles). Thank you and much success to all on this amazing journey. I find that if the first drink I have after work is a cup of milo I dont want an alcoholic drink after that probably because of the milk content. If you only indulge occasionally, withdrawal won't have as big of an impact, but your body will still detox from the booze. I have grandchildren that I want to be around to enjoy a long time. Guess Im a bit slow , It is inspiring to see so many comments of success I would be celebrating 4 weeks today but I had a relapse celebrating a little food fortune.. Listen to your bodys needs and you will follow its messages, not your minds; the ego is a powerful thing. But this helps me remember it took me 1 year to become a 1 handle of vodka a day morning to night everyday no rest. It was just a habit. Skin looks fresh, sleeping like a baby + feel back in control. It is worth mentioning that nutritional status improvement occurs when someone strop drinking, which is one big reason why people may see many of the above improvements with sobriety. When you ditch the alcohol, however, you won't have those sleepy-yet-restless nights. I am AF for one month but have an insatiable craving for sugar. I like to drink the majority of the day on Saturday and Sunday. Done a 90 day break. It is actually quite creepy. Even if you don't drink heavily but like to enjoy one drink per night (which is defined as moderate drinking, BTW), even doing a dry January may improve your food choices and therefore your weight, sleep quality, mood, and performanceboth in the gym and at work, Ziegelbaum says. 8 months of kicking that lie out of my life and Ill never look back. My wife has stopped drinking altogether due to some health concerns. The bottom line: It's a personal decision whether or not you drink, and how much. They feel like they have already done everything and might lose a sense of purpose, which can cause a relapse. My happiness. I can still socialize with friends and not feel guilty the next day. Over the past 30 years he has worked in various leadership roles in privately held organizations and private equity portfolio companies. No more worrying about what I said or did yesterday or making a fool of myself, which is what keeps me from drinking every day since. Tough life as my son passed away and shortly after my sister died of cancer that increased my drinking. It is not the real me. For the past five years, Ive tried to keep my drinks to fewer than 7 a day. I quite for 4 years when I stopped smoking so that I wouldnt have a weak moment. 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